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There is something
palpably different in the atmosphere of Klang South's chapter
meetings. There is an undercurrent of expectancy and joy wrapped by a
strong sense of fellowship. People appear excited to be present and
they are always bringing friends - believers and unbelievers - to the
meeting.
The chapter has been in
existence for about 16 years. What has turned a moribund chapter into
a vibrant one in which members take pride in and eagerly invites
friends and even strangers they meet to attend?
In looking back over
the last four years, we discovered that in following the vision
stated, we have actually unconsciously adopted the following five
approaches to chapter vibrancy.
Servanthood-Leadership
Chapter vibrancy begins
with passionate and compassionate leadership because passionate and
compassionate leadership births passionate and compassionate
followers.
The chapter leadership
must have a servant's heart - the willingness to serve without any
thought of personal gain. It demands servant-leaders who are God-centred
in order to be others-centred. It also demands the ability to relate
to people. How else can one lead if one doesn't even like people or if
people cannot relate to us?
The leadership must
also be able to provide a `contagious' vision for members to catch.
So, the leadership must constantly draw the people's attention to the
chapter's vision as Prov. 29:18 - 'Where
there is no vision, the people perish advises. To put in another way
to relate to our ministry: without vision, a chapter just drifts
along.
Some questions the
chapter leadership must ask constantly are: Am I a servant-leader or
merely a chapter president? Have I a vision for my chapter or do I
lead from meeting to meeting? And most importantly, do I lead or do I
love first?
Relationship
Can there be genuine
and strong fellowship without first establishing relationships? Any
vision, however inspiring, must be built upon strong relationship. Do
people feel the warmth of genuine Christian fellowship when they come
to our meeting? Do they feel belonged?
A chapter can create
strong bonds of fellowship when we go beyond the one-hour chapter
meetings. We must be creative in providing opportunities for bonding -
either in big or small groups or individually.
We celebrate birthdays
and wedding anniversaries of members during chapter meetings. Then we
stumbled into what has now become regular sessions when we started off
by having the occasional get-together on Saturdays or public holidays.
Now our regular bak kut teh fellowship, teh tarik fellowship or lunch
fellowship have become a key feature of our chapter. And in the
process of developing friendship, we have a lot of fun too!
Why are such
extra-meeting fellowships so important? Because it helps to bond
people. We used to have people attending chapter meetings week after
week and yet not even knowing one another's name. Now, genuine
friendships have developed and the chapter is not only strengthened
but it also attracts those - believers and unbelievers - who are
looking for such fellowship.
Are we genuinely
interested in the people our Lord brings to our chapter? Are we
interested in people as beloved of God or do we see people merely as
statistics that make our chapter looks good?
Relevance
Relationship must also
be packaged with relevance because when our chapter meetings have
relevance to a person's life, he will be a faithful member and he will
be the best promoter of the chapter. Nothing beats word-of-mouth
advertising and when you have a member who has been blessed in one way
or another, he is the best advertisement your chapter can ever have.
Leaders especially need
to ask: how relevant is my chapter in terms of addressing spiritual
and other needs? Is there an emphasis on addressing the spiritual and
physical needs of our people? Do we showcase the reality of a
prayer-answering God? Is praying for one another and testifying to
answered prayers a key feature of a chapter meeting?
But it isn't enough to
make nice-sounding prayers when someone requests for prayer. To
address the physical needs of people in the chapter means that our
responsibility does not end with saying amen. It isn't enough to pray
for one another, we need to look out for one another as well. And that
often means backing our prayer for the other person by action (James
2: 14-25).
We must grasp this
vital truth: the people who attend our chapter meetings are not
present by chance but have divine appointments with God in our chapter
meetings. Therefore, we must prayerfully seek His direction in
ensuring that the purpose of that brother's appointment is fulfilled.
Persistence
Do we care enough for
our chapter members never to give up on them? Do we care enough to
always be on the look out for their well-being even if we are
rebuffed?
The chapter leadership
has the awesome responsibility of caring for the people the Lord
brings to it and we can never take this responsibility lightly. If we
have grasped this awesome truth, we cannot help but be persistent in
looking out for our people.
Persistence is a
symptom of dedication to a cause. We never give up in inviting someone
to our meeting even if we are continually rejected. We keep in
constant communication with our people and that's one of the ways we
tell people they are important and worthy of our attention.
The message Klang South
delivers to all who comes is: you are important; we don't care whether
you are regular or occasional in attendance but we are thinking of
you. So, we keep them all informed on weekly meetings through regular
communications either through weekly e-mail or SMS or phone calls.
By being persistent in
invitation and follow-up, we have seen backsliders restored,
unbelievers redeemed and even those not entirely convinced returning
to our meetings again and again.
Are we following the
Lost Sheep Principle as in Luke 15? Do I
care enough not to give up?
Protection
Discerning leadership
is vital in protecting the chapter. We should not allow just anyone
available to speak at our chapter meeting, keeping in mind our Lord's
injunction in John 21: 15-17 to Peter
about feeding the sheep and lambs. What is shared must be scriptural
and edifying otherwise it can be dangerous to our spiritual health.
We must also protect
our chapter against irrelevant, dubious and even boring speakers!
First impression counts. If a first-time visitor to our meeting is put
off by irrelevant sharing as some are prone to do or are simply
boring, we might never be able to convince him to return.
The five points
mentioned are not chapter growth techniques but rather an overflow of
the work of the Holy Spirit within. Our greatest blessing is to see
lives transformed after encountering God through our meetings.
It's not about being a
lively chapter but it's about being a chapter that is alive. It's not
about having programmes per year but it's absolutely about possessing
spiritual dynamite.
The ultimate message
Klang South can proclaim is: when we become as passionate about living
the Great Commandment - love the Lord your God with all your heart,
with all your strength and with all your mind and love your neighbour
as yourself - as we are about fulfilling the Great Commission, we will
see much fruit. That is the promise of our Lord and by His grace,
Klang South have seen the fruits. All Glory to God!
(the above was recently
presented at the Central Region AMC)
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